Plan Your Wedding.Not Theirs.
The Honest Truth
Why Isn't Elsker Free?
The Knot, Zola, WeddingWire, Joy. They're all free. Have you ever wondered why?
Because you're not the customer. You're the product. Your wedding date, your budget, your venue preferences, your guest count. That data gets packaged and sold to vendors who pay for access to you. The "vendor marketplace" is the business model. The planning tools are bait.
Elsker costs $49 because your intimate details shouldn't be someone else's business model. No ads. No vendor marketplace. No data selling. No inbox flooding. Your data belongs to you.
Your Wedding, Your Culture
A Planning Timeline That Knows Where You Come From
Most wedding planners give you a generic American checklist and call it done. But if you're blending Korean and Western traditions, or planning a Hindu ceremony with a modern reception, a generic checklist doesn't cut it.
Elsker builds cultural tradition tasks directly into your planning timeline. Not as an afterthought. Not as an add-on. Built in from day one.
More traditions added continuously. Don't see yours? Let us know.
Multicultural Weddings
Blending Two Traditions?
Expert guides for couples combining cultural and religious wedding traditions into one celebration.
The Tools
Everything to Make It Yours. No Ads. No Compromises.
Real planning tools backed by real values.
Stop losing sleep over the budget
That sinking feeling when you can't remember what you've already paid? Gone. See every dollar, every deposit, every balance. Always up to date.
- Category breakdowns with real-time totals
- Payment tracking with due date reminders
- Visual budget health at a glance
No more spreadsheet chaos
Tracking RSVPs across texts, emails, and sticky notes is a special kind of nightmare. One place for every guest, every response, every dietary need.
- Bulk import from spreadsheets or contacts
- RSVP tracking with automatic counts
- Dietary restrictions and meal preferences
Every vendor, every quote, zero stress
Lost quotes, forgotten follow-ups, scattered contracts. Not anymore. Everything about your vendors lives in one place.
- Side-by-side vendor comparisons
- Contract and payment tracking
- Built-in vetting checklists by category
A timeline that actually reflects your wedding
Not a generic American checklist. A planning journey built around your traditions, your timeline, and the wedding you actually want.
- Phase-based planning from engagement to honeymoon
- Cultural tradition tasks built in
- Assign tasks to your wedding party
How It Works
From Overwhelmed to On Top of It
Get started in under 2 minutes
A Promise
What Elsker Will Never Do
This is not a marketing line. This is how we built the product.
- We will never show you ads
- We will never sell your data to vendors
- We will never let vendors pay to reach your inbox
- We will never spam you with promotions
- We will never share your guest list, budget, or preferences with anyone
Pricing
What You See Is What You Pay.
We're in public beta. This is what it costs.
Couple
1 wedding, lifetime access, all tools
- Budget tracking
- Guest management
- Cultural traditions
Planner
10 active weddings, all features
- Team collaboration tools
- Advanced scheduling
- Priority support
What Founding Members Get
Full Access
Every tool, every feature. Nothing held back.
Shape Features
Direct input on what we build next
Priority Support
Faster response times from our team
The Road Ahead
The Product Grows. Your Price Doesn't.
More cultural traditions
We're adding new traditions continuously. Every wedding deserves a plan that reflects its heritage.
Intelligent planning
Smarter nudges, timeline compression, and recommendations that adapt to how your planning is actually going.
Wedding websites
Beautiful, customizable wedding websites with built-in RSVP management. No separate service needed.
Building in the Open
We're in Public Beta
Elsker is built by a small team of developers who believe couples deserve better than being sold to vendors. The product is real, it works, and real couples are using it.
But we're still early. Features ship regularly. Things improve every week. Founding members get a locked price and a direct line to shape what gets built next.