Get engaged. Get organized.Don't get sold.
Why your phone rings
Sign up for a free wedding site. Then wait for the calls.
Sign up for a free wedding planner and it starts within days. Photographers, florists, DJs, venues. Not spam. The product working exactly as designed.
The Knot, Zola, WeddingWire and Joy are free because vendors pay to reach you. Your date, your budget, your guest count and your venue shortlist are the inventory. You've probably heard this from a friend already.
Elsker has no vendor marketplace. Nobody can pay to reach you. Your phone stays quiet.
One place
Two hundred things. One day you can't redo. One place to run it from.
Budget, guests, vendors, seating and timeline in one workspace. Every deposit, every RSVP, every deadline where you can see it. Nothing in a spreadsheet, nothing lost in a group chat.
Stop losing sleep over the budget
That sinking feeling when you can't remember what you've already paid? Gone. See every dollar, every deposit, every balance. Always up to date.
- Category breakdowns with real-time totals
- Payment tracking with due date reminders
- Visual budget health at a glance
No more spreadsheet chaos
Tracking RSVPs across texts, emails, and sticky notes is a special kind of nightmare. One place for every guest, every response, every dietary need.
- Bulk import from spreadsheets or contacts
- RSVP tracking with automatic counts
- Dietary restrictions and meal preferences
Every vendor, every quote, zero stress
Lost quotes, forgotten follow-ups, scattered contracts. Not anymore. Everything about your vendors lives in one place.
- Side-by-side vendor comparisons
- Contract and payment tracking
- Built-in vetting checklists by category
A timeline that actually reflects your wedding
Not a generic American checklist. A planning journey built around your traditions, your timeline, and the wedding you actually want.
- Phase-based planning from engagement to honeymoon
- Cultural tradition tasks built in
- Assign tasks to your wedding party
Your Wedding, Your Culture
A Planning Timeline That Knows Where You Come From
Most wedding planners give you a generic American checklist and call it done. But if you're blending Korean and Western traditions, or planning a Hindu ceremony with a modern reception, a generic checklist doesn't cut it.
Elsker builds cultural tradition tasks directly into your planning timeline. Not as an afterthought. Not as an add-on. Built in from day one.
More traditions added continuously. Don't see yours? Let us know.
Multicultural Weddings
Blending Two Traditions?
Expert guides for couples combining cultural and religious wedding traditions into one celebration.
So why does it cost money?
Why isn't Elsker free?
The Knot, Zola, WeddingWire, Joy. They're all free. You already know why.
Because you're not the customer. You're the product. Your wedding date, your budget, your venue preferences, your guest count. That data gets packaged and sold to vendors who pay for access to you. The "vendor marketplace" is the business model. The planning tools are bait.
Elsker costs $289 because your intimate details shouldn't be someone else's business model. No ads. No vendor marketplace. No data selling. No inbox flooding. Your data belongs to you.
How It Works
From Overwhelmed to On Top of It
Get started in under 2 minutes
A promise
What Elsker will never do
This is not a marketing line. This is how the product is built.
- We will never let vendors pay to reach your inbox or your phone
- We will never sell your data to vendors
- We will never show you ads
- We will never spam you with promotions
- We will never share your guest list, budget, or preferences with anyone
Pricing
What You See Is What You Pay.
Not working for you before your wedding? Full refund, and you keep your export.
Couple
1 wedding, lifetime access, all tools
- Budget tracking
- Guest management
- Cultural traditions
Planner
or $1,290 a year, two months free
Unlimited weddings, 25 seats, couples included
- Unlimited weddings
- 25 team seats
- Your couples don't pay $289
What Founding Members Get
Full Access
Every tool, every feature. Nothing held back.
Shape Features
Direct input on what we build next
Priority Support
Faster response times from our team
The Road Ahead
The Product Grows. Your Price Doesn't.
More cultural traditions
We're adding new traditions continuously. Every wedding deserves a plan that reflects its heritage.
Intelligent planning
Smarter nudges, timeline compression, and recommendations that adapt to how your planning is actually going.
Wedding websites
Beautiful, customizable wedding websites with built-in RSVP management. No separate service needed.
Why we charge
The free ones sell you because they took the money. We didn't.
Elsker is built by a small team who think couples deserve better than being the product. It's real, it works, and couples are planning their weddings with it today.
New features ship every week and we read every piece of feedback. Founding members lock in their price for life and get a direct line to what we build next.