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Sikh Wedding Checklist

16 items across 3 categories to plan your Sikh wedding, in the order they come up.

Pre-Wedding Preparation

These are the things to prepare in the months and weeks before the Sikh wedding.

Pre-Wedding
  • Book Gurdwara for Anand Karaj

    Reserve the Gurdwara and confirm that the Granthi and the Ragi Jatha are available for the ceremony.

  • Arrange Ragi Jatha (Musicians)

    Book professional Ragi musicians who can perform the Lavaan and Shabad Kirtan during the ceremony.

  • Plan Milni Ceremony

    Work with both families to pair up male relatives for the garland exchange.

  • Order Bridal Lehenga / Salwar Kameez

    Order or commission the bride's traditional red or maroon wedding outfit with gold embroidery.

  • Order Groom's Sherwani and Turban

    Order the groom's traditional Sherwani suit and matching wedding turban (Pagri or Sehra).

  • Book Mehndi Artist

    Hire a professional henna artist for the Mehndi ceremony.

  • Arrange Choora Bangles and Kalire

    Work with the bride's maternal uncle to buy the Choora bangles and Kalire.

  • Prepare Rumala Sahib

    Get decorative Rumala Sahib (cloth coverings for Sri Guru Granth Sahib Ji) to present at the Gurdwara.

Ceremony Day Preparation

These are the items needed for the day of the Anand Karaj.

Ceremony
  • Confirm Palla (Ceremonial Scarf)

    Check that the saffron or red palla scarf is ready for the Lavaan ceremony.

  • Prepare Karah Prasad

    Arrange for fresh Karah Prasad to be prepared with the proper Gurbani recitation.

  • Prepare Milni Garlands

    Have flower garlands ready for all the paired relatives in the Milni ceremony.

  • Confirm Langar Arrangements

    Check that the community meal is arranged with the Gurdwara kitchen or with caterers.

  • Confirm Dhol Player for Baraat

    Confirm the dhol drummer for the groom's procession on arrival.

Reception Preparation

These are the items for the evening reception.

Reception
  • Book Reception Venue

    Reserve a banquet hall or other venue for the evening reception, with space for Bhangra dancing.

  • Book DJ or Live Band

    Hire entertainment for the reception, ideally someone who knows Punjabi and Bollywood music.

  • Arrange Reception Catering

    Book caterers for a Punjabi-style dinner with both vegetarian and non-vegetarian options.

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