West African Wedding Checklist

Commission Aso Oke or Kente Cloth

Contact a traditional weaver to commission handwoven cloth for the couple and the wedding party.

Hire Alaga or Traditional MC

Hire an experienced traditional master of ceremonies who knows your specific ethnic tradition.

Finalize Bride Price Agreement

The two families negotiate and agree on the bride price items and amount through their elders.

Hire Traditional Drummers

Book a professional traditional drum ensemble for the ceremony and the reception.

Source Fresh Kola Nuts

Arrange a supply of fresh kola nuts, and bitter kola and alligator pepper if you wish.

Source Palm Wine

Arrange fresh palm wine for the libation ceremony and for the guests.

Distribute Aso Ebi Family Cloth

Choose the matching fabric and give it to the wedding party and close family.

Assemble Bride Price Items

Buy and package all the items on the agreed bride price list.

Prepare Ceremony Space

Set up the ceremonial area, with seating for the elders and open space in the center for the couple.

Arrange Kola Nut Display

Place fresh kola nuts on ceremonial plates with alligator pepper and bitter kola.

Prepare Libation Items

Set out palm wine or schnapps with the calabash or ceremonial cup.

Prepare Four Tasting Elements

Set out honey, lemon, bitter leaf or vinegar, and hot pepper.

Confirm Drum Ensemble Arrival

Check that the traditional drum ensemble has arrived and is set up.

Book Traditional Caterer

Hire a caterer with experience in West African cuisine.

Order Cultural Decorations

Arrange traditional decorations, including colorful fabrics, gourds, baskets and cultural motifs.

Prepare for Money Spraying

Get small-denomination bills ready, and check the venue's policies.